What Do You Believe an Outburst of Anger Can Do to Your Energy Levels and Those of Your Loved Ones Around You?
Have you ever considered the impact of an angry outburst on your energy levels and those around you?
Drains energy: Anger depletes your energy, leaving you feeling exhausted.
๐ฉHurts relationships: It can hurt and alienate loved ones. ๐Destroys trust: Damages relationships and can lead to irreparable harm.
๐ฅCauses regretful actions: Leads to actions and decisions you might regret later. ๐
Results in financial loss: You might lose job opportunities or face other financial setbacks due to uncontrolled anger. ๐ธ
If you find yourself entering emotional turmoil, it’s important to understand that anger often stems from anxiety.
As a hypnotherapist and anxiety coach, I’ve found that:Fear causes inner pressure.
Anxiety builds up pressure inside, like a bottle. โ๏ธ
Pressure release: If this pressure isn’t managed, it needs an outlet. ๐ช
Anger as stress relief: Often, this release comes out as anger. ๐
The good news is that anger stemming from anxiety is something you can change—it's not written in stone.
๐ Addressing anxiety can significantly reduce anger. One effective technique is distracting the mind.
When you feel anxiety building up, try this tactile exercise to stop the overflow in its tracks.
Tactile Grounding Exercise: Find an object: Pick up an object nearby, made out of soft fabric, like a cushion, the jacket you are wearing at work, a rounded pebble outside in nature , or even a stress ball.
Focus on texture: Close your eyes and focus on the texture, temperature, and weight of the object. Let your mind explore every detail. ๐๏ธ
Stay present: Concentrate on this sensory experience for a few minutes, allowing it to distract and calm your mind. ๐งโ๏ธ
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For loved ones on the receiving end of anger, it’s crucial not to try reasoning with an angry person in the moment—they won’t be able to hear you due to the fight mode they are in.
Instead, try to remain calm, breathe deeply and wait until the waves are calmer. ๐
If things get out of hand, leave the situation, assuring your partner that you will be there for them once they have had time and space to calm down. ๐ค
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By using these techniques, you can manage your anxiety and prevent it from turning into anger. This approach not only reduces angry outbursts but also promotes emotional well-being for you and those around you. ๐ฑ
If this blog post has affected you, feel free to get in contact with me to talk about it without any obligations. I'm here to help. ๐
Warmly yours,
Barbara Eva ๐
### Discover the Simple Secret to Boosting Your Creativity and Easing Your Mind
In our bustling, always-connected world, it's easy to forget the simple pleasures that can make a huge difference in our mental and emotional wellbeing. Everyday stresses and anxieties seem to be our constant companions, but what if I told you there's a surprisingly simple way to dial down those feelings and give your creativity a significant boost? That's right, the secret is as effortless, and as close, as looking up into the sky. Here's why you should make time to gaze upward and let the vast expanse inspire you:
- ๐ฉโจ๏ธ **An Immediate Creativity Booster and Stress-Reliever:** The act of looking up into the sky is a powerful tool for clearing your mind and sparking creativity. In a world where our senses are constantly bombarded by stimuli, giving yourself the permission to just stop and gaze can act as an instant reset for your brain, refreshing your thoughts and giving way to new ideas.
- ๐๏ธ **Accessibility:** The beauty of this technique lies in its simplicity and accessibility. No matter where you are or what time of day it is, the sky is always there above you, waiting to be appreciated. You don't need any special equipment or have to invest money; all it requires is a moment of your time and the willingness to lift your head.
- โพ๏ธ **Let Your Imagination Fly with the Clouds:** The sky is an ever-changing canvas, with clouds forming and reforming into an infinite variety of shapes and patterns. By allowing yourself to follow these formations, you're engaging your imagination in a way that's both relaxing and stimulating. This exercise isn't just about escape; it's about expanding your capacity to envision and dream, to momentarily step outside of the everyday and into the realm of possibility.
So, next time you feel overwhelmed by deadlines, or your brain feels like it's stuck in a loop of anxiety, remember that relief might just be a glance away. Pause, take a deep breath, and ๐๏ธlook up. Watch the clouds drift and morph, and allow yourself this small moment of peace and inspiration.
Not only will this practice help clear your head and boost your mood, but it might also lead you to your next great idea. After all, some of the greatest thinkers and artists throughout history have found inspiration in the natural world. You're giving yourself the space to join that tradition, to connect with something vast and timeless, to find a sense of peace and a burst of creativity in the simple act of observing the sky.
Taking the time to look up is more than a brief diversion—it's a reminder that, no matter how hectic life gets, there's beauty and inspiration to be found all around us. We just have to remember to lift our eyes.
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Now, we’d love to hear from you. Have you ever found yourself mesmerized by the shapes and stories unfolding in the clouds above? Did a certain cloud formation spark an idea or offer you a moment of peace in a hectic day?
Share your stories and, if you captured any, your cloud pictures in the comments below. We’re eager to see the world through your eyes and hear about the moments that uplifted your spirit.
Remember, every cloud has a story, and every glance upwards has the potential to lift our mood and ignite our creativity. Let’s inspire each other by sharing the beauty we’ve discovered in the simple act of looking up.
Yours,
Barbara Eva
โจ Find your peaceful place easily, made just for you.
โฐ Take only 5 happy minutes next to an open door or a big tree in a quiet park or lovely garden. ๐ท
- Lean back comfortably and let your head rest against something strong and supportive.
๐ Let go for a bit, trusting this solid friend to hold you up and give you a break from the busy world.
- Close your eyes and start to breathe deeply, feeling your chest and belly rise, filling up with air.
- Breathe out slowly, letting your belly come back in, and with it, let all your stress float away.
- Keep breathing like this for a few times, feeling a peaceful exchange of energy.
- Then, breathe in a way that feels good and right for you, like coming home.
- Let your shoulders drop, melting into a moment of pure “being,” wrapped in peace for a little while.
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๐ณIf you're near a tree, go ahead and give it a hug, feeling that strong, natural support.
This hug, this deep connection, can cheer you up and calm you down right away.
Make this a habit, and watch how this mindful exercise brings more and and more calm into your life, unveiling layers of peace each time you do it.
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We'd love to hear about your experiences and feelings as you find your peaceful place. Have you found a special spot that’s your go-to for tranquility? Did hugging a tree bring an unexpected smile to your face? Every journey is unique and sharing yours can inspire and uplift others in our community. Please, don't hesitate to share your stories, thoughts, and revelations in the comments below. Your voice is a cherished part of our collective journey towards peace and mindfulness. ๐ฌโค๏ธ
๐ Embrace a Slice of Serenity. ๐ Take a breather and gently dial down your stress levels in the easiest way possible. ๐๐
โจ Unveil a moment of calm amidst your day - our image guides you into a Yoga pose as your new mini-retreat.
๐ Just 1 minute, 3 times a day, could work wonders.
๐ฌ Remember, the power of breath transforms. Make sure to breathe deeply, in harmony with your natural rhythm.
๐งโ๏ธ Let's kickstart this journey together: Inhale deeply three times before beginning, maintain comfortable breaths throughout, and end the exercise with 3 to 4 soothing breaths. It's like hitting the reset button on your inner calm, preparing you to dive back into the day's demands with a higher energy level.
Here's to endless days filled with rejuvenation and joy ahead ๐
Your,
Barbara Eva
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Medical disclaimer:
Note: This recommendation is intended for general wellness purposes. Always consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new exercise or breathing techniques, especially if you have any pre-existing health conditions or concerns.
"Relish The Cup of Gratefulness - With Every Sip, Feel a Warm Thanks and Get Lost in Tales Until It's All Gone." -
My Personal Mantra for Inner Peace ๐
Hello there, lovely visitor—you've stumbled upon a piece of my heart I've decided to share with you today. In the maze of digital content, I'm glad you've found my little nook of positivity and self-improvement.
I want to introduce you to a simple, yet profoundly impactful exercise I practice myself.
In the whirlwind of daily life, we all deserve a pause — a moment to breathe, to recalibrate, and to find our grounding again.
This practice is my go-to during those times when life seems to throw curveballs faster than we can catch them.
It's an exercise deeply entwined with the simple, comforting ritual of making a cup of tea (or any warm beverage, really).
It's something wonderfully familiar to us, especially here in the UK where "sticking the kettle on" is almost a national mantra for any situation.
Yet, within this daily routine can lie a powerful moment of mindfulness and reset for your mind.
You can seamlessly integrate this mindfulness practice into your daily life, whether:
- You're in the office, submerged in your to-do list,
- Sitting in your favourite café, indulging in the aroma of your preferred brew,
- Taking a day off, wandering or finding solace in nature,
- Or truly anywhere you find yourself with the opportunity to make or order a hot drink.
This ritual promises a moment of tranquillity, a guaranteed inner peace that's accessible wherever you are. But as with any good habit or exercise, the key is repetition. The more you integrate this simple practice into your routine, the more profound its effects on your mind and body. It's an invitation to invite calm into your day, amidst chaos or monotony.
And let's not forget the magic woven by our bodies' own chemistry — dopamine, endorphin, serotonin, oxytocin. Each plays its melody, but together, they perform a symphony that uplifts, heals, and rejuvenates both mind and spirit.
I welcome you to join me in this practice. Embrace the warmth of your mug, let the steam caress your face, and with each sip, allow yourself to breathe, reset, and smile. This isn't just about enjoying a drink; it's about enriching your day with a simple, yet profound, moment of joy and peace.
So, to you reading this, I hope you find your "Special Cup" today and every day.
Enjoy the journey ๐๐คฉ
Love,
Barbara Eva